Proxying a Postgres connection

I have a client whose Postgres database I need to connect to periodically. This database is currently hosted on their server, let's call it psql.example.com, with standard port 5432. They have it configured so that I can connect to it from my "primary" server, let's say that's on IP 123.45.67.89, using my_username and my_password as credentials. The thing is, it's not my primary server that need to connect to it, but rather my load-balanced AWS nodes. It seems that I should be able to run something on my primary server with ssh -L or iptables, which will listen for incoming connections (on a different port, say 42042, to avoid potential conflicts later on) from my load-balanced nodes (easy to secure that end of things with standard AWS functionality), and transparently forward it on to their database, passing any response back. I've tried things like ssh -L 42042:psql.example.com:5432 my_username@123.45.67.89, but this doesn't work; if I debug, I see that it's trying to connect to port 22, not 5432. Seems that I shouldn't be the only one wanting to do something like this, but most of what I've found is about using SSH to secure the connection to the DB server. It doesn't seem like any of the my_username@123.45.67.89 bit should be required on my primary server, that should be more for securing the connection from my end node to my server? Security of the connection to their server would be done through their existing IP limits and then PSQL credentials. They're running quite an old version of Postgres, 8.1, which I don't think would make any difference for a pure port-forwarding solution, if that exists, but might limit other options.